Monday, February 13, 2012

Early Valentine's Day at Our House . . .

Yesterday, we treated the two children currently residing in the house with their choice of a favorite chocolate. Today, I came home from taking my son to college and found a pound of my favorite candy on the table . . . all for me! It was especially thoughtful as my husband had to make a 20-minute drive to buy it and he is also sick with a bad cold, too.

Shouldn't let my husband out unattended as he returned from taking daughter number one to her college class, this afternoon, and came home with a dozen roses . . . all for me!

I didn't forget him as I got him a Mass card for Valentine's Day with a year's worth of Masses. Given the fact that he missed the Blessing of the Throats this year and has a cold, seems prayers would be even better than cold medication!
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Monday Musings . . .

"Man always gets less than he demands from life."
-- Jack London

"When a true genius appears in this world, you may know him by this sign, that the dunces are all in confederacy against him."
-- Jonathan Swift

"We need a president who's fluent in at least one language."
-- Buck Henry

"I have often depended on the blindness of strangers."
-- Adrienne E. Gusoff

A return to morality starts with a NO from women!

Pope Paul VI had a rough time as Pope coping with the aftermath of Vatican II, the liberalism seeping into the Church,  etc. I would, however, give him extremely high marks for defending the unborn. No matter what history will say he did or didn't do, he was straightforward in his support for the right to life. I was just rereading a previous post about the secular press realizing that Catholic values make sense. A breath of fresh air when so many 'catholics' pick and chose what they will abide by these days. Whether certain polls are correct or not, many Catholics don't see a problem with using the birth control pill.

I'm not one to take medication of any sort - too many side effects. When I read the possible side effects of the pill, I was shocked that any woman would want to put that into her body. What is even more amazing is that these same women will be adamantly against abortion but 'religiously' take their birth control pill. The pill does not prevent pregnancy. A conception can take place but the pill makes the body inhospitable to the pregnancy and, basically, aborts it. Women on the pill could be aborting several babies a year. Should be an intersting surprise on one's individual judgement day to find out how many children God had sent them and how few they accepted for the sake of convenience.

Pope Paul VI's encyclical on this subject is long and detailed, as it should be, given he was making a statement on morality on behalf of the Church. You don't need to read it, just consider the four, main points and see if you can't find these results of destroying human life already in play in our society.

1.General lowering of moral standards
2.A rise in infidelity, and illegitimacy
3.The reduction of women to objects used to satisfy men.
4.Government interference in reproductive matters.

I was listening to one of those psychological radio talk shows, one day, and a woman called in with a complaint about her live-in boyfriend. She said that he wasn't honoring their 'committment' and what should she do. The psychologist told her that she had no claim on the young man. The woman sputtered and said, "But we are living together. We are a couple. He is cheating on me!" The talk show host said, "You have nothing legally binding. You are, to put it crudely, 'shacking up'. You are providing him with all the perks of marriage without the license. He is not cheating on you so much as enjoying the 'fruits' of the disrespect you show yourself."








Sunday, February 12, 2012

Homemade Chocolate Peanut Butter Cups

The one thing that can lure me away from a self-imposed diet is a peanut butter cup chocolate candy. I can avoid them while shopping as I'm careful about going off my grocery list. However, upon discovering this easy recipe, temptation is but a few minutes of work away!

http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/Homemade-Peanut-Butter-Cups?pmcode=IMBDV01T&_mid=2340136&_rid=2340136.558202.453303

If you have trouble accessing the link, let me know and I will post the actual recipe here.

Finished Quilts . . .

Just sold the quilt on the left and the customer was happy with the price and paid, sight unseen! I deliver it when her check clears the end of the month. The second quilt is going up for sale, too. It is one of my favorites and, like all 'babies', it is hard to see it go . . . BUT, I have too many quilts on hand and too many ideas that want to become quilts so I'm being practical.

I kept track of the time taken to make the first quilt for pricing and it was a bit over 20 hours of work and that didn't include the cost of the fabric supplies. Selling the quilt makes me want to jump right into designing another one right now . . . However, I have this feeling my husband would be happier with a hot meal when he comes home from work. He supports my creativity better on a full stomach!
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Truth from the secular press - Business Insider - the facts!

This link was passed on to me by a friend. I was amazed at how much clarity was exhibited in this article given the climate regarding the Catholic opposition against the recent contraception mandate. I've included the link and also 'printed' out the article for those you might not be able to access it. Catholics owe a huge 'thank you' to these two authors of this article for their truth in reporting!

Time To Admit It: The Church Has Always Been Right On Birth Control

http://www.businessinsider.com/time-to-admit-it-the-church-has-always-been-right-on-birth-control-2012-2

Michael Brendan Dougherty and Pascal-Emmanuel Gobry
Feb. 8, 2012, 4:39 PM

Painting the Catholic Church as "out of touch" is like shooting fish in a barrel, what with the funny hats and gilded churches. And nothing makes it easier than the Church's stance against contraception.

Many people, (including our editor) are wondering why the Catholic Church doesn't just ditch this requirement. They note that most Catholics ignore it, and that most everyone else finds it divisive, or "out-dated." C'mon! It's the 21st century, they say! Don't they SEE that it's STUPID, they scream.

Here's the thing, though: the Catholic Church is the world's biggest and oldest organization. It has buried all of the greatest empires known to man, from the Romans to the Soviets. It has establishments literally all over the world, touching every area of human endeavor. It's given us some of the world's greatest thinkers, from Saint Augustine on down to René Girard. When it does things, it usually has a good reason. Everyone has a right to disagree, but it's not that they're a bunch of crazy old white dudes who are stuck in the Middle Ages.

So, what's going on?

The Church teaches that love, marriage, sex, and procreation are all things that belong together. That's it. But it's pretty important. And though the Church has been teaching this for 2,000 years, it's probably never been as salient as today.

Today's injunctions against birth control were re-affirmed in a 1968 document by Pope Paul VI called Humanae Vitae. He warned of four results if the widespread use of contraceptives was accepted:

1.General lowering of moral standards

2.A rise in infidelity, and illegitimacy

3.The reduction of women to objects used to satisfy men.

4.Government coercion in reproductive matters.

Does that sound familiar? Because it sure sounds like what's been happening for the past 40 years.

As George Akerloff wrote in Slate over a decade ago,

By making the birth of the child the physical choice of the mother, the sexual revolution has made marriage and child support a social choice of the father. Instead of two parents being responsible for the children they conceive, an expectation that was held up by social norms and by the law, we now take it for granted that neither parent is necessarily responsible for their children. Men are now considered to be fulfilling their duties merely by paying court-ordered child-support. That's a pretty dramatic lowering of standards for "fatherhood."

Today's moral lodestar

How else are we doing since this great sexual revolution? Kim Kardashian's marriage lasted 72 days. Illegitimacy: way up. In 1960, 5.3% of all births in America were to unmarried women. By 2010, it was 40.8% [PDF]. In 1960 married families made up almost three-quarters of all households; but by the census of 2010 they accounted for just 48 percent of them. Cohabitation has increased tenfold since 1960.

And if you don't think women are being reduced to objects to satisfy men, welcome to the internet, how long have you been here? Government coercion: just look to China (or America, where a government rule on contraception coverage is the reason why we're talking about this right now).

Is this all due to the Pill? Of course not. But the idea that widely-available contraception hasn't led to dramatic societal change, or that this change has been exclusively to the good, is a much sillier notion than anything the Catholic Church teaches.

So is the notion that it's just OBVIOUSLY SILLY to get your moral cues from a venerable faith (as opposed to what? Britney Spears?).

But let's turn to another aspect of this. The reason our editor thinks Catholics shouldn't be fruitful and multiply doesn't hold up, either. The world's population, he writes, is on an "unsustainable" growth path.

The Population Bureau of the Department of Economic and Social Affairs of the United Nations sees (PDF, h/t Pax Dickinson) the rate of population growth slowing over the next decades and stabilizing around 9 billion in 2050…and holding there until 2300. (And note that the UN, which promotes birth control and abortions around the world, isn't exactly in the be-fruitful-and-multiply camp.)

More broadly, the Malthusian view of population growth has been resilient despite having been proven wrong time and time again and causing lots of unnecessary human suffering. For example, China is headed for a demographic crunch and social dislocation due to its misguided one-child policy.

Human progress is people. Everything that makes life better, from democracy to the economy to the internet to penicillin was either discovered and built by people. More people means more progress. The inventor of the cure for cancer might be someone's fourth child that they decided not to have.

So, just to sum up:

It's a good idea for people to be fruitful and multiply; and regardless of how you feel about the Church's stance on birth control, it's proven pretty prophetic.


Timely . . .

I worry about my child and the Internet all the time, even though she's too young to have logged on yet. Here's what I worry about. I worry that 10 or 15 years from now, she will come to me and say 'Daddy, where were you when they took freedom of the press away from the Internet'?
- Mike Godwin